A lot of couples visit France even though one of them is pregnant. In fact, a lot of couples think that it’s extra romantic when you visit France several months before the birth of your child. There’s really nothing wrong with this as long as you make sure that your partner is healthy enough to do it and that there are no unforeseen complications or pregnancy-related emergencies.
Now, it’s easy to see the romantic dimensions of a trip to France when the female in a couple is pregnant. But please understand that it can be quite stressful.
I know that you probably have an itinerary drawn up, you probably have all sorts of ideas as to where you can go and the kind of things that you can do. That’s all well and good, but the problem is, it all boils down to execution.
It really all boils down to how you implement your plan because, let’s face it, life is what happens when we’re making other plans. You may have the best laid plans in the world, but life has a way of throwing a curve ball and all these well thought out and well planned hopes and wishes simply fall apart.
This happens quite a bit, and it really has everything to do with proper preparation. So it’s not unusual for couples who go to France to come back really stressed out. Thankfully, there is one practice that will take a lot of the stress off. What am I talking about? I’m talking about a prenatal massage for your pregnant partner.
When you give her this prenatal massage over the course of several days, you achieve many different things. First of all, it takes the edge off. This is the most obvious benefit. She’s less stressed. She feels that she doesn’t have to worry about what will happen next. She doesn’t have to agonize over whatever happened during the trip. She is calmer and more relaxed.
The next benefit, of course, involves a tremendous bonding opportunity between you and your partner. This involves touch, this involves stepping into her space, this involves intimacy. Now, this doesn’t necessarily have to involve sexual intimacy, but the emotional intimacy and intensity is still there.
So do yourself a big favor, if you are looking for a great way to reconnect and take your relationship to the next level after your French vacation, give your pregnant partner a prenatal massage. This is a great way of soothing her, calming her down and, most importantly, showing her, in no uncertain terms, that you really care.
You have to understand that people have been saying “I love you” since forever. Anybody can say those words. In fact, people say those words so many times that a lot of people don’t even know what they mean.
So do yourself a big favor and walk your talk. It’s one thing to say to your partner that she means everything to you, it’s another to actually show it by being there physically and doing acts of service.